What Do You Look For In A Wedding Minister?
Thursday, December 10th, 2009Who do you want to officiate your wedding? Do you have the right wedding minister?
Like any other professional, they are not all equal. There are clunkers, normal, and super star wedding ministers. Wedding ministers have personal characteristics that may be attractive or objectionable. Consider your wedding minister candidates. Look for qualities of professionalism, public speaking skills, sensitivity, listening, flexibility, and their priorities.
What does it matter? Anybody can perform a wedding, right? Maybe not.
First, you need someone who meets the legal qualifications to perform your wedding ceremony. You state law defines who is approved and authorized certain professionals to do wedding ceremonies. So the first thing you want to know is if the individual is authorized by your state to perform weddings.
Do you want someone representing a particular tradition? If you have grown up in a Baptist church and many of your family members and friends are Baptists; you probably want a Baptist minister to officiate your wedding. What is your background, religious preference, or interest? This will help you narrow your choices. If you consider yourself Christian, but do not have strong ties to a particular church , you might consider an independent Christian minister.